I think you completely missed the point of actually having the rp aspect required.
First off, we have an RP flag that isn't truly implemented anymore. It should be, but so many forget that it even exists, and the rp requirement to enter certain zones have been removed. I believe it is a travesty that needs to be mended.
Deity worship is no more OOC as Estidn's rp group.
Worship is a choice. It's not forced at all. I think that people like to throw around "forced rp" because they THINK they understand what that actually means. Forced RP is to causing something in RP to happen that another RPer has no options for counter measures.
"Jonny casts prismatic sphere"
"billy casts a super super magic missile attack and pierces th sphere, killing Jonny!"
THAT is forced rp people. Requiring people to get a friggin RP flag in order to follow a deity is NOT.
As for making people go through a bunch of automated quests to change deities, screw that. We have RPL's for a friggin reason. USE them. People should be willing to RP their way out of a faith and into a new one, why? Because it STOPS faith jumping.
But hey, I'm willing to compromise. Either they RP, or they cough up a few tokens. Also, I think that if they drop a faith (by paying a token), they become a heretic, and cannot join another faith for a priod of time. Hey, does this sound familiar? Hehehe, it's the same thing for PK.
Faith jumping is no more different than clan hopping. They both have their own respective benefits and disadvantages. If we're going to bring in bonuses to people based on their faith, they had better be willing to deal with the commitment behind it. If we don't create boundaries, then we FOSTER inconsistency, and laziness.
Speaking of bonuses. I think that each deity should only grant a single +1 bonus to ONE SPHERE. No +3 to backstab, or +5 DR. Just a simple +1 to a given sphere the deity identifies with.
Here is a pretty picture:
This is just a very simple example of how the deities should be balanced. We currently have 10 spheres, but we going to drop them down to 6 or 8. We can just one deity from the evil section, since Cthulhu and Lolth basically encompass all that is evil (hehehehe), and bam, we have 8 deities for 8 respective spheres. Cthulhu would give +1 to the psychic sphere.
Anyway, that is my take on it all. I think if you want an RP aspect added to your character, you should have the RP flag. RP flags don't get you hunted and killed like PK flags do. So don't bother trying to compare the two. It's unfair. However, we have the flags and we have the dedicated people (our RPL's) who are willing to do whatever. USE our resources, don't ignore them like usual.